Friday, November 14, 2008

The Nov 14th Special


Today , the 14th day of November is Childrens day!!!. Im not a child anymore to be excited about Children's day :-) (But still there is a child within.. for that matter who doesnt..)
But being the day for children, the Kochi FM station had this translated version of Khalil Gibran's poem dedicated to them today morning..and I heard it while having my breakfast... Its wonderful..
So as soon as I landed in office, did a google search and un-webbed the same. And along with it ,got a bonus... an other three..
here it is...

On Children...
And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, "Speak to us of
Children."
And he said:
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not
even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with
His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is
stable.

On Friendship...
And a youth said, "Speak to us of Friendship."
Your friend is your needs answered.
He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
And he is your board and your fireside.
For you come to him with your hunger, and you seek him for peace.
When your friend speaks his mind you fear not the "nay" in your own mind,
nor do you withhold the "ay."
And when he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart;
For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are
born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.
When you part from your friend, you grieve not;
For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the
mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.
And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.
For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but
a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.
And let your best be for your friend.
If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know its flood also.
For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill?
Seek him always with hours to live.
For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of
pleasures.
For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed
.

On Love...
Then said Almitra, "Speak to us of Love."
And he raised his head and looked upon the people, and there fell a stillness
upon them. And with a great voice he said:
When love beckons to you follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the
garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your
growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that
quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the
earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread
for God's sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your
heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.
But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's
threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter,
and weep, but not all of your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, I am in
the heart of God."
And think not you can direct the course of love, if it finds you worthy, directs
your course.
Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of
loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of
praise upon your lips.

On Marriage...
Then Almitra spoke again and said, "And what of Marriage, master?"
And he answered saying:
You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when white wings of death scatter your days.
Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same
music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together, yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.

Find out more here

http://www.leb.net/gibran/

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Inspiring

Mail forwads ... Mostly its boring..sometimes its funny ... and rarely Inspiring..

This one was of the latter type... So thought.. will share it.. Read on..

Speech by Bryan Dyson, CEO Coca Cola

Imagine Life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them -

Work
Family
Health
Friends
Spirit

and you're keeping all of these in the air.You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls - family, health, friends and spirit - are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for Balance in your life.

How??

Don't undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. Don't set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. Don't take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless. Don't let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live all the days of your life. Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. Don't be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. Don't be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. Don't shut love out of your life by saying it's impossible to find time. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings! Don't run through life so fast that you forget not only where you've been, but also where you are going. Don't forget, a person's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. Don't be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily. Don't use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savoured each step of the way...
ByBryan Dyson

Friday, July 25, 2008

Garbage In... Methane Out

The old adage "Garbage In .. Garbage out " is very much valid..in most instances, but not here..
With cities and population growing and living spaces shrinking by the minute, this one is noteworthy..

The Story
We have a "Bio-gas" plant installed at home.. and here " Garbage In" is "Methane Out" and whatever garbage that comes out (the slurry, I mean) is too good to be garbage.. That good, that it has to be diluted before feeding the plants, or else you risk the plants of over nutrition :-).

My dad has this habit of trying out new things... and if he has made his mind on something.. he would just see to it that he accomplish it somehow or the other , and has this knack of talking over people to agree to it. On topics he is keen to promote he just goes flat out..

So it was he who masterminded the Operation Bio-Gas plant at home.. me n my brother was totally against it .. but somehow he managed to get my mom ( who was pretty neutral on this topic) to vote in his favour ... and finally we had to give up ... Yield to his justifications ( which I felt were overly exaggerated).

The whole task of installing the the B-plant was a "shitty Business". Yeah.. After the plant was shipped home, it had to be filled with "Bull Shit" ( read Cow dung ) first thing and that too Fresh !!!.
The whole exercise was on a Saturday, meaning, I was at home....
Now, inside the city, where the hell do you get cows, let alone Dung !!! ... and without this .. nothing would work...

Finally the lady who was supervising the installation , said that there was someone known to her, who had 4-5 cows. We drove all the way to his house, hired a man( Kutappan), hired a box auto ( petty auto ) and filled in the shit.. 2 loads to be exact. The aroma of the freshly laid shit .. and to top it Big B 'z buzzing around.. it was a spectacle , both for eyes n for the nostrils !!!!
We rode back, us in front and the shit load following , with Kuttappan, standing atop the shit-pile, as if he were on top of Mount everest.

Now that we reached home, there was hardly any place to download the bull shit.. so I parked the car outside and the petty-auto rolled-in.. and Kuttappan jupmed out ..nd unloaded the stuff on to our porch ... I saw mom's face going shapeless and dad looking somewhere else as if he never knew what was happening.. I just coudnt stand the smell and the sight of kuttappan.. that I ran off and locked myslef in my room.. But smell doesnt know that i dont like it, he made his way into my room and " you are not welcome " blabbers.. didnt matter .. I had to get out or my abode .. and face the shit...

When I came out, Kuttappan had turned "Shitappan".. he was mixing shit and water to a pureee kind of consistency and pouring it into buckets.. .. and that too by hand.. had it smeared all over his face ( i guess he was wiping of the sweat) and body.. God save him !!!

Seeing my uneasiness, mom tried to ease me.. by giving lectures on how people in the past, used it to smear their floors and even use it for "sudhikalasam" and all..She even went to the extent that , there used to be a saying that ," chanakam arakkunavan ammaye verukkum"enno.. somthing of that sort .. to which I could do nothing but laugh !!!.. Ente ammede oru karyam !!! Enikku vayya... :-) . She always comes up with some sayings.. most I guess are self made :-)) but funny I must say...

And, finally by evening.. all the business was done.. and Kuttappan , cleaned up the enitre place and himslef....( I wondered how he will get back home?? ppl will not let him in any bus.. )

I must say , after that.. It wasnt as bad as I thought.. i mean the smell n all... ( mebbe bcos I was facing it since morning.. )...

But the next day.. all the smell was gone... Methane was ready , waiting to be set on Fire... Dad was happy, mom was glad.. me - speechless... :-)
Thats the end of ... the Methane Story :-)

Now The Facts..
In fact this intiative by my dad... has actually turned out to be very very fruitful and rewarding... We get home made gas to last each day for upto 4 hours..We dont have to worry much about the wastes from the kitchen..We dont have to dig holes around to bury the waste of fish and meat .. the premises are very very clean... and above all ... the LPG gas lasts much much longer than it used to....( I hear the LPG has been running for more than 3 months now).. given the rate at which the LPG prices are soaring up.. my dad had his ideas SPOT ON !!! ...
It really is worth the smell and investments !!! ... and All that Stinks is not all that bad...

The suggestion..
If u have some space at home, ... a day u can stress your nostrils and lungs..,and ..waste ny ways we create (instead of dumping it by the road or someone else compound) to dump... give it a try... its worth it..

GO GREEN .. save the planet :-)) ( Jokes apart. I mean it )...

and pls dont come to my home to see how it works.. for you stand the risk of facing the explanations ( to the very minutest of details ) from my DAD... :)))

Monday, October 22, 2007

When the going gets tough !!!!!



What a Grand Finale to the F1 2007. Couldn’t have asked for more. Thrilling, gripping, exhilarating…I was on the edge of my seat right from the word GO … It was one hell of a race at Interlagos, Brazil… with Hamilton, Alonso and Raikkonen all going for the kill… the tracks were set on fire…

All thru the season, McLaren had it very much in their control. A superb car, a two time world champion in Alonso… and the Best of all, the wonder kid Lewis Hamilton, Ron Dennis’ very own boy… For a rookie (he never seemed to be one, the way he monstered his Mclaren and gave every other driver in the circuit a chill down the spine…) he did drive his heart out. He had the championship, well within reach, going into the penultimate race of the season…. So near…and then he literally drove the tires off his Mclaren to park in the gravel…at the very entrance of the pit lanes…. and later to see from the pit lanes a Ferrari 1-3… and his “Best Friend “this season ,splitting the two Ferraris. This just set the stage up for the final showdown in the “FORMULA 1 Grande PrĂªmio do Brasil 2007”.

Hamilton was under enormous pressure...not from other drivers… but his own teammate Alonso… In the former part of the race…he had proved that he wasn’t the one to break down under pressure…but towards the latter part it just was too much for him to handle…In the final race, he gave it his all...but was outdone by some splendid driving by Kimi, Massa and Alonso. Lewis came back strongly, and at times I felt like, he was asking too much from his car… that it almost gave up once or twice… but then he and his car fought back to the 7th position…That was all he could manage, for the drivers ahead were way too far ahead for him to catch-up with !!.


I’m a die hard fan of Kimi....yet my heart went out to Hamilton… But then there lies the beauty of Formula1. You just can’t count anybody out till the last race, the last lap….




Alonso was there, very much in the race for the championships… close on Hamilton’s tail…both on the track and the points table. Coming into the final race all he needed to do was to get to at least the 2nd place if not 1st and pray that Hamilton didn’t finish the race :-) ( and if he did, not better then 7th)….but that was not the case to be …. on RACE DAY…

Ferrari had other plans….a plan tailor made and executed to suit the very situation…starring Kimi Raikkonen, Fillipe Massa. Directed by Jean Todd, Screen Play- Chris Dyer (Kimi’s Race Engineer) and the entire Ferrari crew for support…They were just one COHESIVE unit (as Sidhu would put it)… Fighting it out for one mission…The championship for Raikkonen… and how well did Massa played his part…He was a guinea pig in the Race in Shanghai…Ferrari testing out during the race as to how the dry tries would work in the wet conditions… and then clearing it for Raikkonen to go flat out to the chequered flag. He is one hell of a team man. Without his support Kimi wouldn’t have made it…

A plan Mclaren couldn’t even think of, let alone executing it….They had the best of everything… the Car, the Drivers, the strategy, sponsors….They had it all, but for mutual respect and understanding…When you are fighting it out.. all for your glory alone…nothing else will help… It’s good to have a healthy rivalry... but not like what was there between Alonso and Hamilton…And to add insult to injury, Alonso was in war with everyone within his team… lots of controversies… Still he drove like a champion….There’s no doubt on his capabilities… But only on his attitude…

This is a lesson for all... as in how not to be within a team… Had it not been for this unhealthy rivalry, Hamilton or Alonso could have easily sealed the tournament for themselves and Mclaren…


Having said all that…let me get to my favorite driver…the ICEMAN…the FLYING FINN… After a superb start to the season, he fell back… Sometimes the car giving up and sometimes he not delivering…But he came back strongly. Did he not drive that Scarlet of his, right up to the limit.., if not over it? He gave it his all, setting lap times, each bettering the previous, lap after lap… When under pressure… he is the one… he delivers. Keeps him cool… Cool as ice…he was simply superb... “When the racing got tough…Kimi got going...”

For him to win the championship…his efforts were not merely enough…He needed the support of Massa and the rest of his team…on which he never had the slightest of doubts…But he badly needed his stroke of luck and fortune. But then fortune favors the brave… and Kimi was brave and fortunate enough……. to be the F1 Champion 2007.



Hats off to Team Ferrari and Kimi Raikkonen.They were a treat to watch… and F1 can’t get better than this…

Looking forward to the next season... India too is to have its own team… A Ferrari Engine powered Car... Thanks to Vijay Mallya…

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Confessions of a moderate blogger ....

I had almost forgotten that this really existed.. No that I was too busy or anyhting...just that i forgot...

Shuld find some time ...to fill in some junk... lots of subjects around... worth being blogged about....Just cant get started...

Friday, June 8, 2007

Celebration - A joyous Diversion


Got this one as a forwarded mail... A simple explanation of how simple a celebration is !!!!

Celebration means......

Four friends.
Bahar barsaat.
Four glasses of beer.


Celebration means......

Hundred bucks of petrol.
A rusty old bike.
And an open road.


Celebration means......

Maggi noodles.
A hostel room.
4.25 a.m.


Celebration means......

3 old friends.
3 separate cities.
3 coffee mugs.
1 internet messenger.


Celebration means......

Rain on a hot tin roof.
Pakoras deep-frying.
Neighbours dropping in.
A party.


Celebration means......

You and mom.
A summer night.
A bottle of coconut oil.
A head massage.


We can spend
Hundreds on birthdays,
Thousands on festivals,
Lakhs on weddings,
but to really celebrate

all we need to do is spend a little time with our loved ones.


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Monday, June 4, 2007

A TROG# – The Road to Paniyeli -Poru





With us… nothing is planned (cannot be planed for that matter)... We are the “take the world as it comes” people. Friday evening we tentatively agreed on “Poru” as our destination for the next day...The place was suggested by Pali… None of us had heard about this place before…Only thing we knew was…. .It’s after Perumbavoor… So naturally Pali had his disclaimer well in advance… “This is supposedly a beautiful place, where we can have a bath in the river.. And ‘m okay with any other place u suggest…”

As for planning we didn’t miss out on this…. “We will buy Kallu*”. Now the problem with Kallu is we will have to buy it early in the morning, and from people whom we know…So the only solid plan we had for travel day… was to get some Gud kallu…V####h and J####n took the ownership for this task….. (Names are encrypted,for all are "Eligible" bachelors...If some one feels Kallu is not aristocratic enuf :-))


It’s said.. “The early bird catches the prey”... Same is the case with Kallu…
So “the early V#####h got the kallu”… Had it canned neatly…. Corked the can with a little hole in it.. Otherwise it will fizz out just like champagne... when u open :-)

We were a group of five…”the awesome five some”
So by about 10 AM. Pali came to my house and from there we proceeded to J####’s house where S####h and V####h were ready…


Now the million Dollar Question…”Where are we going??…. We will go to Poru…
Ok so... who knows the route.. Well err.. hmm.. no one .. That’s ok.. we will find it as we go…” After all where’s the thrill in going to a place we all know???

We didn’t think much… we all jumped in and set off... “Chalo Poru”… God knows where… and what…

All we knew was we had to hit Perumbavoor first… now that’s 40 kms odd from Kochin… All of us were proud residents of Kochin...But none of us were sure of the roads that led us to perumbavoor... We knew we had to start from Kakkanad…and we did…
But whenever the road forked… we braked…. and asked some one for “The road to Permubavoor”… When u do not know the roads the strategy is simple “Chodichu chodichu Pokam”…

So we kept going and on this beautiful little junction, where we stopped for advice on the further road to perumbavoor… A gentle man…knowing our hopeless situation told…”Don’t u worry ppl … just follow the white marker on the middle of the road… All white markers lead to Perumbavoor…”

We all thought… what an easy way to reach Perumbavoor… We thanked that gentle man for his intelligent suggestion… and accelerated our way ahead….Hardly did we travel 200 mtrs…. I thought I had become “white blind”... for I cudnt see any white markers on the road… Soon I knew… others where White blind too….for they too didn’t see any...by the time we gathered our thoughts we were into an unmarked road…and for the first time that day … we were on the wrong way…had to turn back.. and again trace the white markers… So we never really tried to follow the markers any further… Like this we drove on and finally reached Perumbavoor…and then with the help of locals finally managed to find the road... “Paniyeli – Poru “ about 20 kms from there..


Now the roads were narrow and winding… taking us to the interiors of a beautiful village… Suddenly Pali asked...” What about our food… this place looks like we won't get anything to eat…” .. So we stopped at the first shop we saw. Pali and V####h got and was back soon…Pali has some snacks… V####h… has a strainer in his had…All of us asked together…” what is this for “….A smiling V####h… said... Forgot the get the kallu strained... :-)..

In another 30 mins we were there…”Paniyeli –Poru”...




We took tickets and tried to take ourselves and Kallu inside... But the duty bound guard pointed to a board... that said... “Plastics and alcohol prohibited”… We tried to explain him that Kallu is a non alcoholic beverage…and the volume- wise percentage of alcohol per litre of kallu and all that stuff… He stood his ground… I guess he was drunk :-)…

So we turned back to the car.... one holding the strainer over each glass while the other pouring kallu…. had it as an aperitif… and left the rest... safe in the boot of the car…


We then walked a bit by the riverside and finally reached a place where the water was crystal clear and there was good shade too….




The water was cool, clear and refreshing… all our tiredness was washed off…we spent quite some time in the water..




Had some foto sessions…and the time just flew …



It was great…Nature in its pristine form…no much crowd.. No pollution… only company we had were a herd of cows…butterflies... beautifully colored dragonflies etc…

We finally walked back….decided on coming back again….a place worth visiting again…. Reached the car… finished the rest of the kallu … which was getting sour…and strong… and we started our drive back home…

It was a nice short trip… A day well spent…

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#TROG – read it as a TRavel blOG
*Kallu is the national Drink of Kerala- Slightly alcoholic. A natural juice from the Coconut tree.