Friday, November 14, 2008

The Nov 14th Special


Today , the 14th day of November is Childrens day!!!. Im not a child anymore to be excited about Children's day :-) (But still there is a child within.. for that matter who doesnt..)
But being the day for children, the Kochi FM station had this translated version of Khalil Gibran's poem dedicated to them today morning..and I heard it while having my breakfast... Its wonderful..
So as soon as I landed in office, did a google search and un-webbed the same. And along with it ,got a bonus... an other three..
here it is...

On Children...
And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, "Speak to us of
Children."
And he said:
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not
even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with
His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is
stable.

On Friendship...
And a youth said, "Speak to us of Friendship."
Your friend is your needs answered.
He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
And he is your board and your fireside.
For you come to him with your hunger, and you seek him for peace.
When your friend speaks his mind you fear not the "nay" in your own mind,
nor do you withhold the "ay."
And when he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart;
For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are
born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.
When you part from your friend, you grieve not;
For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the
mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.
And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.
For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but
a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.
And let your best be for your friend.
If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know its flood also.
For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill?
Seek him always with hours to live.
For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of
pleasures.
For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed
.

On Love...
Then said Almitra, "Speak to us of Love."
And he raised his head and looked upon the people, and there fell a stillness
upon them. And with a great voice he said:
When love beckons to you follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the
garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your
growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that
quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the
earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread
for God's sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your
heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.
But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's
threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter,
and weep, but not all of your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, I am in
the heart of God."
And think not you can direct the course of love, if it finds you worthy, directs
your course.
Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of
loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of
praise upon your lips.

On Marriage...
Then Almitra spoke again and said, "And what of Marriage, master?"
And he answered saying:
You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when white wings of death scatter your days.
Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same
music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together, yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.

Find out more here

http://www.leb.net/gibran/

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Inspiring

Mail forwads ... Mostly its boring..sometimes its funny ... and rarely Inspiring..

This one was of the latter type... So thought.. will share it.. Read on..

Speech by Bryan Dyson, CEO Coca Cola

Imagine Life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them -

Work
Family
Health
Friends
Spirit

and you're keeping all of these in the air.You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls - family, health, friends and spirit - are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for Balance in your life.

How??

Don't undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. Don't set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. Don't take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless. Don't let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live all the days of your life. Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. Don't be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. Don't be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. Don't shut love out of your life by saying it's impossible to find time. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings! Don't run through life so fast that you forget not only where you've been, but also where you are going. Don't forget, a person's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. Don't be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily. Don't use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savoured each step of the way...
ByBryan Dyson

Friday, July 25, 2008

Garbage In... Methane Out

The old adage "Garbage In .. Garbage out " is very much valid..in most instances, but not here..
With cities and population growing and living spaces shrinking by the minute, this one is noteworthy..

The Story
We have a "Bio-gas" plant installed at home.. and here " Garbage In" is "Methane Out" and whatever garbage that comes out (the slurry, I mean) is too good to be garbage.. That good, that it has to be diluted before feeding the plants, or else you risk the plants of over nutrition :-).

My dad has this habit of trying out new things... and if he has made his mind on something.. he would just see to it that he accomplish it somehow or the other , and has this knack of talking over people to agree to it. On topics he is keen to promote he just goes flat out..

So it was he who masterminded the Operation Bio-Gas plant at home.. me n my brother was totally against it .. but somehow he managed to get my mom ( who was pretty neutral on this topic) to vote in his favour ... and finally we had to give up ... Yield to his justifications ( which I felt were overly exaggerated).

The whole task of installing the the B-plant was a "shitty Business". Yeah.. After the plant was shipped home, it had to be filled with "Bull Shit" ( read Cow dung ) first thing and that too Fresh !!!.
The whole exercise was on a Saturday, meaning, I was at home....
Now, inside the city, where the hell do you get cows, let alone Dung !!! ... and without this .. nothing would work...

Finally the lady who was supervising the installation , said that there was someone known to her, who had 4-5 cows. We drove all the way to his house, hired a man( Kutappan), hired a box auto ( petty auto ) and filled in the shit.. 2 loads to be exact. The aroma of the freshly laid shit .. and to top it Big B 'z buzzing around.. it was a spectacle , both for eyes n for the nostrils !!!!
We rode back, us in front and the shit load following , with Kuttappan, standing atop the shit-pile, as if he were on top of Mount everest.

Now that we reached home, there was hardly any place to download the bull shit.. so I parked the car outside and the petty-auto rolled-in.. and Kuttappan jupmed out ..nd unloaded the stuff on to our porch ... I saw mom's face going shapeless and dad looking somewhere else as if he never knew what was happening.. I just coudnt stand the smell and the sight of kuttappan.. that I ran off and locked myslef in my room.. But smell doesnt know that i dont like it, he made his way into my room and " you are not welcome " blabbers.. didnt matter .. I had to get out or my abode .. and face the shit...

When I came out, Kuttappan had turned "Shitappan".. he was mixing shit and water to a pureee kind of consistency and pouring it into buckets.. .. and that too by hand.. had it smeared all over his face ( i guess he was wiping of the sweat) and body.. God save him !!!

Seeing my uneasiness, mom tried to ease me.. by giving lectures on how people in the past, used it to smear their floors and even use it for "sudhikalasam" and all..She even went to the extent that , there used to be a saying that ," chanakam arakkunavan ammaye verukkum"enno.. somthing of that sort .. to which I could do nothing but laugh !!!.. Ente ammede oru karyam !!! Enikku vayya... :-) . She always comes up with some sayings.. most I guess are self made :-)) but funny I must say...

And, finally by evening.. all the business was done.. and Kuttappan , cleaned up the enitre place and himslef....( I wondered how he will get back home?? ppl will not let him in any bus.. )

I must say , after that.. It wasnt as bad as I thought.. i mean the smell n all... ( mebbe bcos I was facing it since morning.. )...

But the next day.. all the smell was gone... Methane was ready , waiting to be set on Fire... Dad was happy, mom was glad.. me - speechless... :-)
Thats the end of ... the Methane Story :-)

Now The Facts..
In fact this intiative by my dad... has actually turned out to be very very fruitful and rewarding... We get home made gas to last each day for upto 4 hours..We dont have to worry much about the wastes from the kitchen..We dont have to dig holes around to bury the waste of fish and meat .. the premises are very very clean... and above all ... the LPG gas lasts much much longer than it used to....( I hear the LPG has been running for more than 3 months now).. given the rate at which the LPG prices are soaring up.. my dad had his ideas SPOT ON !!! ...
It really is worth the smell and investments !!! ... and All that Stinks is not all that bad...

The suggestion..
If u have some space at home, ... a day u can stress your nostrils and lungs..,and ..waste ny ways we create (instead of dumping it by the road or someone else compound) to dump... give it a try... its worth it..

GO GREEN .. save the planet :-)) ( Jokes apart. I mean it )...

and pls dont come to my home to see how it works.. for you stand the risk of facing the explanations ( to the very minutest of details ) from my DAD... :)))